Dating Journal
On modern love — and how to date it better.
Field notes on attention, compatibility and choosing well in an age of infinite options.
The psychology of dating
Why you keep attracting the wrong people
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Safety and trust
What is love bombing — and how to recognise it
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Intentional dating
First date questions that actually tell you something
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Intentional dating
When to become exclusive: how long should you wait?
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The psychology of dating
How to stop overthinking in early dating
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Modern dating
Dating app burnout: why you are exhausted
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The member experience
Quieter. And somehow, more real.
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Two a day sounded like scarcity. It turned out to be permission — to stop comparing, and actually pay attention to someone.
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R. — FounderLondon · Founding cohort
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I stopped performing for an audience of strangers and started having one real conversation at a time. I'd forgotten there was a difference.
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A. — ConsultantNew York · Founding cohort
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The three-month limit sounded strange until I realised it made me take it seriously. I left because I met her.
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N. — ArchitectSingapore · Founding cohort
Member reflections, shared with permission · names abbreviated for privacy